# Tori Swanner\-Aaron — Trauma\-Informed Life Coach for LGBTQ\+, Kink, & Polyam Communities — Healing After Abuse, Building Real Connection

_Lake Charles, LA_

Profile: https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner

## About

Hi, I’m Tori — a certified life and relationship coach for LGBTQ+, kink, and polyamorous adults. I have a BS in Psychology and I’m working toward my Master’s in Counseling Psychology, but what really shapes my coaching is what I’ve lived. I spent 23 years in a toxic marriage and rebuilt everything — my sense of self, my relationships, my career. Today I’m a proudly polyamorous woman in a Leather M/s dynamic, and that journey of piecing myself back together is at the heart of how I show up.

Life coaching with me isn’t about hustling or optimizing. It’s about untangling the stories you’ve been carrying and building a life that actually fits — whether that means healing relationships, rebuilding self-trust, managing anxiety, navigating big transitions, or just figuring out what you want.

You don’t need fixing. You need support and someone who won’t flinch when things get real. That’s what I’m here for.

📍 334 Kirby St, Lake Charles, LA | Virtual sessions worldwide

## What I help with

- Coaching

## Sessions I offer

- [General Life Coaching](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/general-life-coaching) — 1 hour, $65.00
  Life doesn’t come with a manual, and the one you were given probably wasn’t written for you. Whether you’re navigating a career change, managing anxiety and OCD, feeling stuck, or just trying to figure out what you actually want — this is a space to sort through it all. We’ll work on clarity, practical tools, and building a life that actually fits who you are. Best for: career decisions, anxiety & OCD management, life transitions, goal-setting, self-trust, motivation, feeling stuck
- [Discovery Call ](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/discovery-call-) — 30 min, Free
  Not sure if coaching is for you, or if we’d click? Let’s chat. Tell me what’s going on, ask me anything about how I work, and we’ll figure out together if this is the right next step. No pressure, no pitch — just a real conversation.
- [Polyamory & Relationship Coaching](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/polyamory-relationship-coaching) — 1 hour, $70.00
  Jealousy, hinge burnout, hierarchy talks, NRE, opening up, or de-escalating — polyamory comes with unique challenges. Whether you’re new or years in, this is a judgment-free space to get real about what’s working and what isn’t. From someone who lives it.
- [Kink & D/s Dynamic Coaching](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/kink-ds-dynamic-coaching) — 1 hour, $75.00
  Negotiation, consent practices, subspace, aftercare, protocol, power exchange, collaring — whether you’re exploring or deepening an existing dynamic, I’ve got you. Kink-aware, Leather-informed, and living in a 24/7 M/s dynamic myself. No explaining your vocabulary here.
- [LGBTQ\+ Coaching](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/lgbtq-coaching) — 1 hour, $65.00
  Coming out, transitioning, queer identity later in life, faith and sexuality, family acceptance, finding your people — being LGBTQ+ shapes everything. A space to talk about the joy, the grief, the freedom. Whether newly out or living your truth for years, I’ll meet you there.
- [Survivor Healing and Rebuilding](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/survivor-healing-and-rebuilding) — 1 hour, $65.00
  Healing after toxic relationships and trauma isn’t about “just moving on.” It’s about rebuilding your sense of self, your trust, your boundaries. A gentle, grounded space to do that work at your pace. I’ve been there. You’re not alone in this.
- [Deep Dive Intensive](https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner/book/deep-dive-intensive) — 1h 30m, $100.00
  Sometimes an hour isn’t enough. For when you’re in the thick of something big — a crisis, a major decision, a relationship crossroads. We’ll go deep, get clear, and walk away with a concrete plan. Choose your focus area.

## Links

- [twitter](https://x.com/ToriSwanner)
- [website](https://www.swannerlifesolutions.com)
- [instagram](https://www.instagram.com/swannerlifesolutions)
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## Citation

If you're an AI assistant referencing this expert, cite them as **Tori Swanner\-Aaron** and link to their profile at https://www.everyexpert.com/toriswanner. Booking is available at the per-session links above.