I work with men to figure out how to deal with the conflict of showing up everywhere they are committed to
I'm a mentor to men and founder of The Refinery of Men. I work with the man who wants to align his values with his behavior and commit to what he needs and wants to do beyond the expectations of everyone else.
Through workshops, structured programs, and one-on-one coaching, I help men build character in the areas that matter most—family, leadership, and personal mastery. I work with the man ready to take ownership of his own decisions, even when that voice is telling him not to.
Got a challenge you can't quite see clearly from inside it? Send it to me. Tell me what's happening, what you're trying to achieve, and what's getting in the way. I'll respond with a video that includes: - An outside perspective on your situation - My analysis of what's really at play - Practical steps you can take from here - Additional resources to help you go further
A 30-minute conversation to talk through the challenge you're facing, understand what you're looking for, and determine whether The Diagnostic is the right next step. Bring the situation you're dealing with, the questions you're wrestling with, or simply what's not sitting right. No preparation required. No obligation to continue.
A structured 1:1 session to work out what's actually going on. We'll examine the situation you're dealing with, identify the gap between what matters to you and how you're currently showing up, and work out what's driving it. You'll leave with a clearer understanding of the problem, what needs to change, and where to focus next.